breakup season

almost 1/3 of the couples that i know are having the same problem - breakup because of 3rd party. mostly are 2F + 1M. is the scale being put on paper correct - 1M : 4F?

hanging on the phone with them really made me so uncomfortable. i just didn't know how to response to it. i'm newly wedded and it really makes me scared - will it happen to me? those bfs are not very handsome, i'd say but still there are so many girls out there 'haunting' for them. erm... my hubby is considered okay ge wo (erm... many ppl say so lah :p). chances are higher wo... okay, okay... i'm low self-esteem : (

very the strange - some of them are depressed, sad and cry all day long; some of them are so calm, accept the fact that the partner is having an affair / affairs, some of them curse and swear; some of them wanna fight the bf back; some of them - so what??! i can look for another one. it's okay!!; some of them are waiting for the bf to decide if to choose her or the other girl.

hmm... if i were one of them, i think i'd be the calm one. cry, shed tears away, accept the fact and move on. days would be tough, undeniable. it's really hard to live alone and standing up on our own feet is really hard, when you are so used to live with him.

kylie - i know i'm not suppose to put this up but... this is my encouragement to you. you have made the correct choice - decide the best for yourself when you have the chance to. i really admire you when you told me that it's fate that put you both together and now it's fate to pull you both away. he'll be always yours, forever yours - it's fate. he won't be yours, it's fate too. no matter how much effort you put in the relationship, he still change when he wants to. you are so 'sa tuid'!!

how about those promises that he has made? those happy moments that he specially created? how about the future that he illustrated? they are all gone in blinks of eyes...


说好的幸福呢

词 : 方文山 曲 : jay 编曲 : micheal lin

你的绘画凌乱着 在这个时刻
我想起喷泉旁的白鸽 甜蜜散落了

情绪莫名的拉扯 我还爱你呢
而你断断续续唱着歌 假装没事了

时间过了 走了 爱情面临选择
你冷了 倦了 我哭了
离开时的不快乐 你用卡片手写着
有些爱只给到这真的痛了

怎么了 你累了 说好的幸福呢
我懂了 不说了 爱淡了 梦远了
开心与不开心一一细数着你在不舍
那些爱过的感觉都太深刻我都还记得

你不等了 说好的幸福呢
我错了 泪干了 放手了 后悔了
只是回忆的音乐盒还旋转着
要怎么停呢

怎么了 你累了 说好的幸福呢
我懂了 不说了 爱淡了 梦远了 我都还记得

为什么幸福时忍心离去?