Thursday, March 31, 2011

Sunday, March 27, 2011

BACK TO DECEMBER by TAYLOR SWIFT



i never fancy taylor swift. in fact, i feel that she is kinda fake.

but i just can't stop listening to this ballad.

BORN THIS WAY by LADY GAGA



fantastic performance!!! bravo!!!

who cares she's an angel or otherwise??!

she can really sing!!!

GAGA 万岁!!!

WHAT THE HELL by AVRIL LAVIGNE



avril's right:

all my life i've been good but now, i'm thinking what the hell?!

all i want is to mess around, and i don't really care about!

.

i support:

i've been good all this while, what the hell now?

i don't give a damn!

又一次勾起我的愤怒

sharis and her husband have safely reached malaysia and they are still considering whether or not to continue their lives in japan. the last time when they got back to malaysia for ROM, they actually voiced out their intention to leave japan in a few years time and settle down in malaysia. everything happens for a reason and since this is the time, just take it as an arrangement by God, although the hint is such disastrous.

we were talking about their wedding after the dinner. it will be a quite hectic thing to organize since the hubby is in ipoh while sharis is in KL. and of course the prayer and tea ceremonies got to be the most headache plan.

during my time, the prayer ceremony was a long one, the tea ceremony was a longer one and the whole marriage procedure was the longest to end. i felt like dying when the whole thing ended. this was my advice to sharis, to better ask my MIL what are her do's and don'ts so that they could best slot in everything that she wanted in advance rather to slot them in at the last minute.

i wished i wasn't there when my MIL said this - 'last time your brother (my hubby) has no choice, he must do whatever i demanded, i forced him to. after him, i won't be having any demands on you, in fact any one of you. the reason being, he is the first in the cheah family to get married, so we have to do every single thing to prevent getting bad comments from all the relatives. you know our relatives, right... they like to gossip and they would talk about this for the rest of their lives and i would possibly have to eat this up for the rest of my life. i know when your SIL (me) listens to this, she will be very and extremely 唔甘愿 because i let you do what you want and she had no choice during her time'.

苦笑地说,'我仲可以点? 都已经过去了' 深深不忿... she sacrificed our will, in fact one of the most important stages in our lives, just to prevent and avoid others from saying bad things about her arrangements for our wedding. she doesn't realize who are her real and closest family members who need her compassion. all she wanted to look after is her own backside!!! selfish!!!

sigh...

i'm so glad that sharis has a choice on her own now. congratulations, my dear sis-in-law. we are so happy for you. may you both live happily ever after.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

MOTIVATION

正能量,充满我吧!!!

i remember writing this once on my blog but i couldn't remember when was that. anyway, we have to always remind ourselves the good things instead of the bad, just to feel a little comfort out of the s**t.

i have been nice to colleagues, instead of, i have been fooled for the whole day!
i have been helpful to colleagues, instead of, i have wasted my time working on the things that you suppose to get it done!
i have been thoughtful to let you learn new things, instead of, i have just escalated one of my tasks to you!

there are always 2 ways to look at things. no matter how bad they are, they could be good sometimes. crisis are always bad but the all time good thing is the knowledge that we earn, which money can't buy.

正能量,充满我吧!!!

Monday, March 14, 2011

2ND RESOLUTION IN 2011

i was advised to go for a jaw restructuring caused by my wisdom teeth but before that i gotta seek for a second opinion first. this isn't a cheap or at a reasonable price procedure. moreover, i heard it is a painful experience too.

see what the 2nd dr gotta say first. more updates coming up...